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Thursday 5 June 2025

Encouraging Independence: How to Raise a Child’s Self-Esteem

By Lisa Gill

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Fostering independence in preschoolers is essential for building your child’s self-esteem and self-reliance. At Maltman’s Green, we build confidence through our tailored learning support programme. By providing opportunities for autonomy, you can raise a confident preschooler who is ready to tackle new challenges.

Here are some tips to make your child more confident:

  1. Offer Choices: Allow your preschooler to make choices throughout the day, such as selecting their outfit or choosing between two snacks. This empowers them to take ownership of their decisions and fosters a sense of control.
  2. Encourage Self-Care Skills: Teach your preschooler to take care of themselves by introducing simple self-care routines. Encourage them to dress themselves and wash their hands. These skills promote independence and build confidence.
  3. Provide Opportunities for Problem Solving: Encourage your preschooler to tackle challenges on their own. Instead of immediately stepping in, ask guiding questions that prompt them to think critically and explore solutions by themselves. Looking for ways to introduce problem solving in activities? Read our fun activities to try with your toddler here.
  4. Celebrate Efforts, Not Just Achievements: Acknowledge your preschooler’s efforts, even if the outcome isn’t perfect. Celebrate their attempts to try new things, reinforcing the idea that mistakes are part of the learning process.
  5. Foster Responsibility: Assign age-appropriate chores or tasks that encourage responsibility. Whether it’s tidying up their toys or helping set the table, these activities instil a sense of contribution and independence.

At Maltman’s Green, we prioritise fostering independence in our Early Years programme, equipping children with the skills they need for future success. Want to learn more about our approach to nurturing independence? Join us at an open day or subscribe to our Baby Hub for resources and insights.

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